Who's The Driver?tm
is a communication tool for people who want to unlock the mystery of marital
love and relationships in general. It breaks long-engrained
communication habits that lead to heated arguments, or frosty distance where
things are superficial and loved ones avoid each other. Instead, one
or both partners learn the deep, spiritually-anchored meaning of love by
seeing their issues and differences in an entirely new light by asking one
core question: Who's The Driver?
Developed by leadership expert and
Christian relationship
coachJohn
Kuypers, one or both partners learn to overcome the root causes of not
feeling very connected to each other. Watch this video as John
explains how Who's The Drivertm
can help any person who wants to build a strong, loving relationship with
their lover before or in marriage.
Here's how it works.Who's The Driver uses a driver-passenger metaphor.
You know that only one person can
drive a car at one time or else...crash! Who's The Driver gives couples a
common, comfortable language to resolve any issue in their relationship by
deciding upfront who will have the final say. It doesn't matter what the
topic is - money, romance, housekeeping, career, parenting, nitpicky stuff -
this tool gets you on the same page - and ends the arguments safely.
Who's The Driver works
even if only
one partner uses it. You learn how to remove the log in your
eye and see your spouse in non-judgmental way.
You see more clearly (by a mile) when you should give in and when you should take a stand.
Most married people discover they take a stand on the wrong things and give
in on the wrong things too.
Read what this couple says about Who's The Drivertm
"John, thank you for the workshop.
We have been using many of your examples as we begin to
engage or when we are in the middle of arguments, or as
I like to call them "intense" conversations. Your
strategies have helped us regroup and regain ourselves."
Other married participants had this to say:
“A common sense
approach to interpersonal communication.”
”A
‘must-attend’ workshop.”
“Well worth the
time and the drive from Sudbury!”
"The Near-Far power spectrum was so
true once you see it."
“Go to it,
you will come away with a better understanding of human relationships.”
“Informative
and enlightening”
“Definitely worth it!”
“Great! A must
for all couples.”
“I feel it
is a great workshop. Thank you for your support in “saving” married
couples!”
“Attend! It's a
real eye opener!”
"Good
integration of the Bible in the workshop."
Who's The Drivertm
is spiritually rooted in the teachings of Jesus, the greatest love teacher of all time. But this is not a sermon. John Kuypers
is a business leadership and couples coach, not a pastor or therapist. He
helps business leaders get results...and he has helped couples get great results too.
Better communication that feels real, feels safe and leaves
you feeling heard and understood by each other in a totally different way.
You'll love
Who's The Drivertm
just like others have loved it!
Who's The Drivertm
didn't happen overnight. John Kuypers spent
more than ten years developing and testing communication tools and techniques.
He is the author of
three books and has run hundreds of workshops and presentations. Most
importantly though, John's marriage has been the real proving ground.
John and his wife Joanne separated twice in the first three years of their
second
marriage. Through the next seven years, he learned the
practical realities of how to apply the wise teachings of Jesus to
remove the log from his own eyes and
build an entirely different marriage with Joanne.
Now he coaches couples using this tool with remarkable results - real
transformations!
This tool is for couples who
want more love.
You will be amazed at how well it works and how you will be using new
language that draws you closer together, right away and on-going. Yet
marriage is long term and this tool keeps on giving year after year.
You want to be married for
life. Start enjoying the most important person in your life even more,
starting today, anchored in Christian principles of love taught by Jesus
himself.
