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Who's The Driver?tm is a communication tool for people who want to unlock the mystery of marital love and relationships in general.  It breaks long-engrained communication habits that lead to heated arguments, or frosty distance where things are superficial and loved ones avoid each other.   Instead, one or both partners learn the deep, spiritually-anchored meaning of love by seeing their issues and differences in an entirely new light by asking one core question:  Who's The Driver?  Developed by leadership expert and Christian relationship coach John Kuypers, one or both partners learn to overcome the root causes of not feeling very connected to each other.  Watch this video as John explains how Who's The Drivertm can help any person who wants to build a strong, loving relationship with their lover before or in marriage.  


 

 

Here's how it works.  Who's The Driver uses a driver-passenger metaphor.  You know that only one person can drive a car at one time or else...crash!  Who's The Driver gives couples a common, comfortable language to resolve any issue in their relationship by deciding upfront who will have the final say. It doesn't matter what the topic is - money, romance, housekeeping, career, parenting, nitpicky stuff - this tool gets you on the same page - and ends the arguments safely.

 

Who's The Driver works even if only one partner uses it.   You learn how to remove the log in your eye and see your spouse in non-judgmental way.  You see more clearly (by a mile) when you should give in and when you should take a stand.  Most married people discover they take a stand on the wrong things and give in on the wrong things too.


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Read what this couple says about Who's The Drivertm

 

"John, thank you for the workshop. We have been using many of your examples as we begin to engage or when we are in the middle of arguments, or as I like to call them "intense" conversations. Your strategies have helped us regroup and regain ourselves." 

 

Other married participants had this to say:

“A common sense approach to interpersonal communication.” 

”A ‘must-attend’ workshop.” 

“Well worth the time and the drive from Sudbury!”

"The Near-Far power spectrum was so true once you see it." 

“Go to it, you will come away with a better understanding of human relationships.”

“Informative and enlightening”

“Definitely worth it!”

“Great!  A must for all couples.”

“I feel it is a great workshop.  Thank you for your support in “saving” married couples!”

“Attend! It's a real eye opener!”

"Good integration of the Bible in the workshop."

 

Who's The Drivertm is spiritually rooted in the teachings of Jesus, the greatest love teacher of all time.   But this is not a sermon.  John Kuypers is a business leadership and couples coach, not a pastor or therapist.   He helps business leaders get results...and he has helped couples get great results too.  Better communication that feels real, feels safe and leaves you feeling heard and understood by each other in a totally different way.  You'll love Who's The Drivertm just like others have loved it!

 

Read these nine Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ) about Who's The Drivertm   
 

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Who's The Drivertm didn't happen overnight.  John Kuypers spent more than ten years developing and testing communication tools and techniques.  He is the author of three books and has run hundreds of workshops and presentations.  Most importantly though, John's marriage has been the real proving ground.  John and his wife Joanne separated twice in the first three years of their second marriage.  Through the next seven years, he learned the practical realities of how to apply the wise teachings of Jesus to remove the log from his own eyes and build an entirely different marriage with Joanne.  Now he coaches couples using this tool with remarkable results - real transformations!

 

This tool is for couples who want more love. You will be amazed at how well it works and how you will be using new language that draws you closer together, right away and on-going.  Yet marriage is long term and this tool keeps on giving year after year.

 

You want to be married for life.  Start enjoying the most important person in your life even more, starting today, anchored in Christian principles of love taught by Jesus himself.

 

We offer coaching services and inspiring workshops - evening, all-day and all-weekend.

Contact us with any questions you may have. 
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